It’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.

It’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.
I realized it didn’t matter what I did, he was going to abuse my daughter. I got angry and thought, “How is this freedom from abuse when we’re both still being abused?!?”
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Protecting Your Kids From a Narcissist: Phone Calls and Facetime Edition

Protecting Your Kids From a Narcissist: Phone Calls and Facetime Edition
If there was no fear of either of those things, what would you do when the ex gets on the phone with your kid and starts emotionally abusing, verbally abusing, spiritually abusing, brainwashing, and manipulating them? 
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Trying to Prove Yourself to the Narcissist

Trying to Prove Yourself to the Narcissist
I started making decisions based on his opinions so that I wouldn’t have to hear what he would say about me. I didn’t want my child to be inundated with his disapproval of me.
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Take Back Your Power

Take Back Your Power
I certainly wasn’t letting the ex off the hook for the horrible things he had done to me and to my daughter. But that day I was just so tired of blaming him for everything wrong in my life, for stealing my joy, for halting my healing.
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Gratitude for Escaping a Narcissist

Gratitude for Escaping a Narcissist
Here is a message of encouragement to you in a time when you might be standing in what feels like an ocean right now and you might feel like you’re drowning.
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