Time to Clean House: Social Media Edition

Time to Clean House: Social Media Edition
Question: Are you still social media “friends” with the ex, his family, or mutual friends?
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It’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.

It’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.
I realized it didn’t matter what I did, he was going to abuse my daughter. I got angry and thought, “How is this freedom from abuse when we’re both still being abused?!?”
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Peace During the Holidays With a Narcissist IS Possible!

Peace During the Holidays With a Narcissist IS Possible!
We would love to co-parent like regular people. But we wind up in situations where we have to choose between the truth that we can’t give him an inch or he’ll take a mile and the fact that we want to do what’s good for the kids. 
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Do You (Really) Want Your Kids to Have a Relationship With Their Narcissistic Father?

Do You (Really) Want Your Kids to Have a Relationship With Their Narcissistic Father?
He knew that I was extremely vulnerable, mourning the loss of our relationship and desperately desiring a relationship for my daughter with him and he used that vulnerability against me.
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Protecting Your Kids From a Narcissist: Phone Calls and Facetime Edition

Protecting Your Kids From a Narcissist: Phone Calls and Facetime Edition
If there was no fear of either of those things, what would you do when the ex gets on the phone with your kid and starts emotionally abusing, verbally abusing, spiritually abusing, brainwashing, and manipulating them? 
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