When the Narcissist Withholds Your Kids

When the Narcissist Withholds Your Kids
He will fight desperately to control you in any way possible. And the easiest way to do that is to control innocent children. His desire to hurt you is so strong that he is willing to put innocent children through whatever it takes to get to you.
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Same Devil, New Level: New Strategies to Handle the Narcissist

Same Devil, New Level: New Strategies to Handle the Narcissist
You’ve spent a lot of time and energy trying to please an abusive person. Now it’s time to take back your power.
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Feeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, Revictimized? Part 2

Feeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, Revictimized? Part 2
He was trying to lead me down a path where I was the one who did something wrong. This happens to us all until we get a strategy to stop playing into their questions so they can’t lead us down the path of defending ourselves, destroying our credibility.
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Feeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, or Revictimized? Part 1

Feeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, or Revictimized? Part 1
Our society has been conditioned to blame the victim and to look for reasons why the victim provoked the abuse, instead of focusing on the actions of the abuser. If we, as a society, don’t look for reasons why the abuse happened, then the world is too scary.
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